An Effective Leader
Most effective leaders can come in all shapes
and sizes, and the change they cause doesn’t always have to be positive to be
effective. The effective leader that I will describe is a short older woman,
she has been teaching for many, many years even though she didn’t go to school
to be a teacher at first; teaching was sort of thrust onto her.
When I met her, she taught how she was taught,
rote memorization and worksheets. She also taught with a firm hand, some would
say that she bullied the students into submission, others would say that she
had high expectations and demanded that the students lived up to them. I saw
her as the kind of woman that got stuff done and as an intimidator. I knew
right from the start that this woman was someone that I had to have on my side
or she would persuade everyone to be against me just by saying it. When she was
showing me around the school for the first time, she made the comment that “we
let the principal think she is in charge, but we really run this place” and by “we”
she meant she.
I was one of the few lucky newbies that year. I
slipped through the cracks and didn’t get much attention. I wasn’t her best
friend but I didn’t do anything that could cause reason for her to turn on me.
She was the kind of person that if she liked you, she would bend over backwards
to do anything for you, but all it took was one thing, and you were on her “list”
for the rest of her life. If you made it to the “list” there was no way you
could ever get off of it and she would do everything in her power, passive aggressive
or aggressive, to shove you out.
I saw her raise people up to their highest
potential, praising them and pushing them to be better than their best.
Encouraging them and forcing them to try again. I saw her comfort them in their
failures and then push them to get back on the horse. It was like, if she
believed in them, then they could do anything. She also loved them, and babied
them, and took care of them like they were her own.
I also saw her tear people down and stomp on
them, figuratively, until they felt like they were worthless. I saw her pull a
kid out of the crowd for talking and yell at him in front of half of the school
and embarrass him by making him stand in the corner. I heard her, through the
walls of our rooms, belittle students for not understanding and ridicule them because
they weren’t following along.
She would do this to grown adults and to the
students, she didn’t discriminate.
If she believed in a cause or movement or
change in the school, then she would push everyone in her click to do the same,
no one dared speak up against her. Then her click would look down upon those
who didn’t follow suit until they either left or changed with them. However,
the exact same thing would happen if she didn’t believe in something. If she
wasn’t on the bandwagon, you might as well forget it.
She did see the importance of technology even
though she didn’t understand how to use all of it. She would do everything in
her power to incorporate as much technology as she could as long as she didn’t
look silly. She would have to learn how to do it all before trying to use it in
the classroom. However, once that happened, then no one else in the building
could justify not implementing the same technology. If she could do it, so
could they.
Some
parts of her leadership style were not that bad, however, the majority of her
style was based off of intimidation and belittling. I do not think that her
leadership was the best way to go about it.
My Leadership
Skills Assessment
mainly had three to four stars across the board, with a couple exceptions; the
overall score was a 60. I was a little surprised at this because I didn’t think
I was that great of a leader because I have tried to make some changes in the
schools I have worked, and have been unsuccessful.
Personal
Characteristics went as follows:
·
Self-Confidence: 3/10, 1 star
·
Positive
Attitude and Outlook: 6/10, 3 stars
·
Emotional
Intelligence: 6/10, 3 stars
·
Providing
a Compelling Vision of the Future: 6/10, 3 stars
·
Motivating People to Deliver the
Vision: 9/10, 5 stars
·
Being
a Good Role Model: 8/10, 4 stars
·
Managing
Performance Effectively: 7/10, 4 stars
·
Providing
Support and Stimulation: 15/20, 4 stars
Apparently
I need to work on my self-confidence. With me having depression and anxiety, I
am constantly questioning myself and thinking that I’m not doing a good enough
job (*see extra-long blog postings). I have been working on this and I am
making progress. I did think that I would have gotten more than one star based
on the progress I have made, but, oh well.
My
strongest characteristic was motivating people. I guess I am good at getting
people to embrace change and work together. I do believe that I am good at
getting students to do these things; however, I don’t think I am any good at
getting adults to do this. Most of my classroom settings have been group work and
student centered. I just don’t feel comfortable doing those same things with
adults (goes back to my self-confidence).
What kind of leader do you aspire to be?
I would love to be the one the boss turns to when they need to get a job done. I want to be trusted and respected. I would love to be someone that is a well known professor in technology education and integration at an ambitious university. I dream that I have written many books that are being used as education education textbooks. I dream of becoming a person that the school districts contact when they need PD on the subject. I dream that my books are bought by schools and the teachers are to read them and have kind of book club meetings about the topics brought up in them.
My dreams are all well and good, and there is a slim chance that it might happen. More realistically, I will be the person that is a leader when I am asked or needed. I have learned that I don't have to be a leader all the time, some times I can be an awesome follower, the best follower that the leader has. As long as I am appreciated, respected and informed, I will be happy lending a hand whenever it is needed.
My dreams are all well and good, and there is a slim chance that it might happen. More realistically, I will be the person that is a leader when I am asked or needed. I have learned that I don't have to be a leader all the time, some times I can be an awesome follower, the best follower that the leader has. As long as I am appreciated, respected and informed, I will be happy lending a hand whenever it is needed.
Summarize
two of the Six Secrets of Change.
Fullan Change Secret #1: Love Your Employees.
I love that this one is number one; I think it is the most important. The “love
your employees” secret of change mainly says that the leaders should trust and
support their teachers and staff unconditionally. The leaders should encourage all
the faculty as they strive to achieve community, school, and personal goals.
Fullan Change Secret #5: Transparency
Rules. I believe that the best professional development is right there in the
halls of your own school. The “transparency rules” secret of change suggests
that the teachers observe each other teach, learn from each other and share
ideas, tricks, and tools…etc. with each other. However it shouldn’t stop with
the teachers, the leaders should also observe and share their ideas, tricks,
tools…etc.
What
is your philosophy of how schools can/should use social media?
When it comes to blogs, Facebook,
Twitter and so forth, I think they should be used in the classroom. If students
are using them all the time outside the classroom, then why not use what they
know to encourage them to learn and be active members of the learning environment?
Blogs are a great way to keep the entire class, their parents and the community
up-to-date with what is happening in your classroom, tests, homework, and
activities. Facebook and Twitter are great tools to use outside the classroom
for support and reminders. You can even create discussions and virtual
classrooms so that even absent students aren’t really absent. Implementing
tools like these can remove the need to make up snow days because students can
just log onto their accounts and have class at home. This kind of integration
also gets them ready for college classes.
I love the idea that my students can
contact me whenever they need me. I have a second Facebook account that I
created my first year of teaching. I didn’t feel comfortable with having
students on my first account since I started it my first year of college, and
while I have deleted and blocked many things over the years, I wasn’t 100%
positive that it was all suitable for middle school children. Plus, while I was
now mature and posting appropriate items, my friends might not be on the same level
as I was, so I created a second account.
I used this account to connect not only
with my students, but their parents and the community. I would remind them of
an upcoming test, support them during their successes and their failures, and I
would wish the school teams good luck at their next competition. With the
private messaging, I was able to help students with their homework, study for a
test, and help them work through a tough situation. I was there for them even
when I wasn’t in the same county.
If the schools that I taught in would
allow phones, I would use them as learning tools. I would have them text me their
answers to the bell ringer and send them calendar reminders of upcoming
activities. I would also do some research and find out other cool and inventive
ways to use those tools to enhance my classroom.
2 comments:
I love how you created a second Facebook account to contact your students. Connecting with students on any social media site can be a very grey area, but I think that's a great way to do it.
Sophie,
The leader you described may have been effective for some as you described, but what a shame that the good leadership qualities were not aimed toward everyone. The school in which she taught must have been very dysfunctional and stressful at times.
Don’t give up on trying to make the necessary changes to benefit teacher and student growth. As an instructional coach, I work with an absolutely brilliant young teacher that lacks self-confidence. I’ve had her lead two professional learning sessions and stood by her side. After her presentations, I addressed the teachers and thanked them for providing her with an attentive audience and also supporting her professional growth as a teacher/leader. I really made a big deal about how they empowered her to share her expertise- what a difference it made with the veteran teachers in terms of embracing the strategies in her presentation. So, don’t give up! Please continue to strive toward impacting student achievement. I believe that your aspirations as a leader will come true! Your thoughts on social media are very insightful and you will make the changes (using cellphones and other devices) at some point in your career. I admire you for setting up a school facebook and allowing parents and students to communicate with you outside the classroom – you definitely got rid of the “walls”.
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